Once you start believing in yourself, MAGIC starts happening! . Looking confident and being confident are two very different things...people can attempt to destroy your self-confidence... don’t let them! Because I can speak from personal experience, it can take years to rebuild it. Confidence is not “they will like me,” Confidence is “I’ll be fine if they don’t”. Just be yourself. Let people see the real, imperfect, weird, beautiful, quirky, smart, honest, silly person you are. Just be you and be proud of you. Good things will follow.